British author (1919-2013)
We are all creatures of the stars and their forces, they make us, we make them, we are part of a dance from which we by no means and not ever may consider ourselves separate.
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Shikasta
The book which bores you when you are twenty or thirty will open doors for you when you are forty or fifty -- and vice versa.
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introduction, The Golden Notebook
I was so immersed in writing [The Golden Notebook], that I didn't think about how it might be received. I was involved not merely because it was hard to write--keeping the plan of it in my head I wrote it from start to end, consecutively, and it was difficult--but because of what I was learning as I wrote. Perhaps giving oneself a tight structure, making limitations for oneself, squeezes out new substances where you least expect it. All sorts of ideas and experiences I didn't recognize as mine emerged when writing. The actual time of writing, then, and not only the experiences that had gone into the writing, was really traumatic: it changed me. Emerging from this crystallizing process, handing the manuscript to publisher and friends, I learned that I had written a tract about the sex war, and fast discovered that nothing I said then could change that diagnosis.
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Partisan Review, 1973
There is no doubt fiction makes a better job of the truth.
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Under My Skin
I'm always astounded at the way we automatically look at what divides and separates us. We never look at what people have in common. If you see it, black and white people, both sides look to see the differences, they don't look at what they have together. Men and women, and old and young, and so on. And this is a disease of the mind, the way I see it. Because in actual fact, men and women have much more in common than they are separated.
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interview, Salon, November 11, 1997
We are several people fitted inside each other. Chinese boxes. Our bodies are the outside box. Or the inside one if you like.
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Shikasta
If we were to put into practice what we know ... but that is the point.
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Prisons We Choose to Live Inside
Political correctness is the natural continuum from the party line. What we are seeing once again is a self-appointed group of vigilantes imposing their views on others. It is a heritage of communism, but they don't seem to see this.
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The Sunday Times, May 10, 1992
All one's life as a young woman one is on show, a focus of attention, people notice you. You set yourself up to be noticed and admired. And then, not expecting it, you become middle-aged and anonymous. No one notices you. You achieve a wonderful freedom. It's a positive thing. You can move about unnoticed and invisible.
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attributed, An Uncommon Scold
A public library is the most democratic thing in the world. What can be found there has undone dictators and tyrants.
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attributed, Grammar Girl's 101 Words Every High School Graduate Needs to Know
People are just cannibals unless they leave each other alone.
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The Golden Notebook
The difficulty of writing about sex, for women, is that sex is best when not thought about, not analysed.
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The Golden Notebook
My mother was a woman who was very frustrated. She had a great deal of ability, and all this energy went into me and my brother. She was always wanting us to be something. For a long time she wanted me to be a musician, because she had been a rather good musician. I didn't have much talent for it. But everybody had to have music lessons then. She was always pushing us. And, of course, in one way it was very good, because children need to be pushed. But she would then take possession of whatever it was. So you had to protect yourself. But I think probably every child has to find out the way to possess their own productions.
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The Paris Review, spring 1988
What a luxury a cat is, the moments of shocking and startling pleasure in a day, the feel of the beast, the soft sleekness under your palm, the warmth when you wake on a cold night, the grace and charm even in a quite ordinary workaday puss. Cat walks across your room, and in that lonely stalk you see leopard or even panther, or it turns its head to acknowledge you and the yellow blaze of those eyes tells you what an exotic visitor you have here, in this household friend, the cat who purrs as you stroke, or rub his chin, or scratch his head.
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The Old Age of El Magnifico
The truth was, she was becoming more and more uncomfortably conscious not only that the things she said, and a good many of the things she thought, had been taken down off a rack and put on, but that what she really felt was something else again.
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The Summer Before the Dark
My major aim was to shape a book which would make its own comment, a wordless statement: to talk through the way it was shaped.
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introduction, The Golden Notebook
When a book's pattern and the shape of its inner life is as plain to the reader as it is to the author -- then perhaps it is time to throw the book aside, as having had its day, and start again on something new.
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Partisan Review, 1973
London has changed enormously and so have the English in the past decade. They're more like Americans and more like Europeans, too. They're always eating out, and when they're at home they don't cook the way they did ten years ago. They're all sitting around in cafés, like the Continentals, drinking coffee and chattering and watching the world go by.
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interview, The Progressive, June 1999
Always, in epochs when the languages and dialects of a culture have become outstripped by development of a practical sort, these languages become repetitive, formalised -- and ridiculous. Phrases, words, associations of sentences spin themselves out automatically, but have no effect: they have lost their power, their energy.
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Shikasta
The youth do not see the old. They are not programmed to see the old, who are cancelled, negated, wiped out.
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Shikasta