quotations about manners
One of the most important rules of the science of manners is an almost absolute silence in regard to yourself.
HONORÉ DE BALZAC
La Comédie Humaine
A robot could be programmed to show good manners. A pleasant demeanor can disguise evil, courtesy can be a window of opportunism, gracious conduct may conceal disdain.
JASON W. BROWN
Process and the Authentic Life
Lack of manners is the sign of a hero.
JEAN COCTEAU
Opium
Good manners do more for a man that good looks.
EDGAR WATSON HOWE
Country Town Sayings
I don't mind if you don't like my manners. They're pretty bad. I grieve over them during the long winter evenings.
RAYMOND CHANDLER
The Big Sleep
Manners are tell-tales of men.
THEODORE TILTON
Sanctum Sanctorum
Suit your manner to the man.
TERENCE
Adelphi
Call a jack a jack. Call a spade a spade. But always call a whore a lady. Their lives are hard enough, and it never hurts to be polite.
PATRICK ROTHFUSS
The Name of the Wind
Whoever in a state knows how to form wisely the manners and men and to rule them at home and in war, by excellent institutions, him in the first place above all others I should esteem worthy of honor.
AMOS BRONSON ALCOTT
Tablets
Perhaps instead of teaching manners, parents should teach the statistical probability that the person you are speaking to is just as good as you are.
BERTRAND RUSSELL
Mortals and Others
A man's own manner and character is what best becomes him.
CICERO
attributed, Day's Collacon
All Politeness is owing to Liberty. We polish one another, and rub off our Corners and rough Sides by a sort of amicable Collision. To restrain this, is inevitably to bring a Rust upon Mens Understandings.
ANTHONY ASHLEY-COOPER
"Sensus Communis", Characteristicks of Men, Manners, Opinions, Times
Fine manners are the mantle of fair minds.
AMOS BRONSON ALCOTT
Tablets
Nothing, except what flows from the heart, can render even external manners truly pleasing.
HUGH BLAIR
Sermons
What once were vices, are now the manners of the day.
SENECA THE YOUNGER
Epistolae Ad Lucilium
And now, gentlemen, like your manners, I must leave you.
DYLAN THOMAS
Rebecca's Daughters
Good men ought to let the world see that their manners are more firm than an oath.
SOCRATES
attributed, Day's Collacon
Good manners are made up of petty sacrifices.
RALPH WALDO EMERSON
Letters and Social Aims
Manners are primarily codes by which we express relationships, particularly status, and are thus contingent upon power. There is nothing absolute about manners: doing or not doing something does not mean it is good or bad manners, but depends upon the people and the context.
DAVID TRIPP
Critical Incidents in Teaching: Developing Professional Judgement
Good manners is the art of making those people easy with whom we converse; whoever makes the fewest persons uneasy is the best bred man in company.
JONATHAN SWIFT
A Treatise on Good Manners and Good Breeding